The Two Forces That Drive Women Wild!

What are these forces?

I’ll tell you, but you might laugh. They’re quite obvious. You’ve probably even used them a time or two before.

But, when it comes to meeting and attracting women, they are extremely powerful — even downright dangerous in capable hands.

These forces take many forms, but the core idea and concept behind them remain the same. Let’s have a look:

* Passion and romance
* Love and lust
* Naughty and nice
* Friend and lover
* Physical and emotional
* Attraction and comfort

See the commonalities in each example? Notice the dichotomy? See how these forces are fairly equal, yet, at the same time, opposite?

For the sake of this blog, we are going to focus on ATTRACTION and COMFORT, although any of the above combination’s will do, as they all cater to a woman’s two primary needs: the need to feel loved, and the need to feel desirable.

Let me ask you a question: what makes a friend?

Now, let me ask you another question: what makes a lover?

Now, let me ask you a third question: what makes a powerful intimate and loving relationship that transcends both friend and lover?

The answer lies in the right combination, the right mixture, of the two key ingredients: attraction and comfort (A&C).

Too much comfort = friendship

Too much attraction = fuck buddy (or a relationship without substance).

But if you want the best of both worlds, it’s not enough to simply build A&C with a woman.

It’s also about the timing.

You must learn to sense WHEN to amp up the attraction while, at the same time, understand when to show comfort. Not only must you master the timing, you must also master the quantity of each, for each particular situation. Too much comfort, and she might start losing her attraction for you. Show her too much attraction, and she might think you’re becoming a horny, insensitive guy, who only wants her for her body. Get the idea?

So how important are A&C?

If you can learn the proper balance, and how to leverage them, they may just be the two most important forces in your life, when it comes to women and dating.

In fact, I will take it a step further and say that they ARE the two most important forces when it comes to meeting and attracting women.

If you can treat a woman like a classy, beautiful lady by day…and like a naughty, bad girl by night…

…WOW! you’d better buckle up — because you’re in for a hell of a fun ride!

They key is that you must cater to both needs. You must know when to treat her like a respectable lady, whom you deeply cherish and respect…

…but if that’s all you do — if all you do is love her and comfort her — you’re no different than her father or brother. And she’s not sleeping with them (I hope).

You must also cater to her need to feel naughty and sexy and desirable.

And when you learn to balance these two forces with impeccable timing and just the right of quantity — watch out.

She may never want to leave you.

And, if you choose your woman wisely, you’ll feel much the same.

NOTE: In the next blog, we will examine how you can get away with just about anything with a woman…once you have established proper attraction.